ToTrainASubmissive

The important thing for any Domestic Submissive is to be ready to please at any given time. I work hard for a living and when I want attention that means now, or else. After warming up her bottom and sending her back to work it's a given that when she services again it's with far more enthusiasm.  With me the job's not done until she swallows every drop. From " Angie Learns Her Place ".

Her job is to satisfy me.  My job is to keep her focused.  She must learn that if she doesn't focus on what she's doing then she is disciplined. If tears need to come before I cum then so be it!

There are far too many Dom's out there who spank at the drop of a hat.  Spank because your submissive needs a spanking and not because your upset about something and feel the need to take it out on her bottom. If she's disobeyed me and I've made it clear what she was to do and she didn't do it that's one thing.  She understands, even though she may not like it, that she gets spanked.  But if I'm in a bad mood and she hasn't done anything wrong but I spank her anyway then I've been unfair.  Doing that more than once will cause her to want to move on and I wouldn't blame her. Her desire as my submissive is to be subservient to me and not my thing to beat on when I feel like it.

After a submissive has had her bottom spanked it's time to thank her Dom, or Master, for giving her the attention she desired. I have found that after a spanking a submissive shows great inthusism when thanking me for her spanking.  There's no doubt in my mind that it comes from not wanting the spanking to continue. There are times when I have to tell her to fetch the wooden spoon and when that happens she works me better than ever.

Consistency is very important in any relationship and especially with a submissive.  Like any other relationship a submissive will always test her boundaries.  It's very important that when she has crossed a boundary she is put across your lap and spanked.

In part, what makes a submissive a submissive is the willingness to serve.  But how exactly?  What is it that you want from your submissive? It can be a fine line.  Some submissives seek punishment and others don't but they willingly accept it because they trust you.  It is good, right from the start, to define the relationship.  This is how I want something done and when you don't do it the way I want then you are spanked.  It's plain and simple.